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I am a former staff member of Renfrew. My former colleagues are to be praised for their dedication and compassion to the patients. I have forever been altered by the young women I helped.

As for your comment on “fat staff members”, this just reflects how embedded body judgments of women are in our society. No one should be judged for his or her job or any other aspect of living based on weight. It is negative attitudes like this that lead to eating disorders.

I am a former Renfrew patient, and can tell you that the staff at Renfrew is nothing but supportive, caring, and honestly, life saving. I went to Renfrew battling anorexia and bulimia for 10 years, and I was only 21! The staff at Renfrew was there every moment I needed them, whether it was 3pm or 3am. They are truly the most caring, supportive people I have met on my eating disorders journey. Do they have to say things that patients do not like? Yes, sometimes. Do they call us on our well, crap? Yes. And that is what makes the difference. I was ready for help when I went to Renfrew, and was so happy to find what I needed in every stafff member. It is truly a place of love, comfort, and hope.

I walked into Renfrew scared, crying, and VERY afraid of letting go of my eating disorder. Five years later, I am so greatful for all of the help I received, from everyone on staff. I am recovered, after a 10 year battle with my eating disorder. Do I still think about it? Of course, but less and less each day. I truly owe my life to all of the staff members at Renfrew. They helped me realize I was worth saving.

Newbury, you are right. Renfrew is a bunch of let’s say not-so-thin, flat-affected so-called therapists. Renfrew should be ashamed of how they portrayed themselves in this film. However, it is not far off from real life where I have witnessed them gossip cruely about the girls and let them flounder in self-depricating/destructive behaviors even right there in the therapy groups without barely dealing with it. I, too, am a former Renfrew employee. It is a shame that they subject very sick patients to bad therapists that hide their inefficiencies behind a name like Renfrew. As I watched this movie I could hear myself wishing the girls could know something outside of this place, where real help can be found.

I agree. How do they expect those girls to get better when they’re constantly around obese people! I mean, i’ve never been to Renfrew before (Or any place like Renfrew actually) but as i watched that movie i could kind of understand why those poor girls didn’t want to eat- I know if I was around obese people all the time even i wouldn’t want to eat..And i don’t even have an ED!

And i also don’t understand why they are forced to eat food like cupcakes and pizza. Sure it will help them to put on weight- but shouldn’t they be doing it the healthy way? I’m not a professional, but wouldn’t the girls be happier to eat if they didn’t have to eat things like that?..

I feel sorry for those girls!

I this most of you are ABSOLUTLY WRONG!!! I am a former resident at Renfrew and if it wasn’t for Renfrew i’d most likly be dead. Now i just want you people to know..that there is NO reason to “feel sorry for us girls” we went to a place to get help and while some of us did, other didn’t take the help they could have. eating disorders are SERIOUS and no matter what kind of food we are forced to eat weather a cupcake or salad, plan and simple ITS HARD. I am in recovery, yet i still struggle every day but i am sooooooo thankful for renfrew and i don’t want to hear bad things said about it.. so before you judge it.. go stay there for 6 weeks like i did !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is harsh, man.

i am writeing caue i have the same thing i am anereic my mom alway’s did the same thing she alway’s picked through her food right in front of me and i just thought that is was normal so i decited to try it.i became anereic when i was. io only 8 year’s old. i just wanted to say that. i young girl’s should think before the copy cat some one.i also think that is is wrong. this is my opion

First off I’ve been to Renfrew and I’m now been diagnosed as having experenced trauma. I was treated terribly and it was just awful there, ecspecially with being around other people with eating disorders When one person doesn’t eat I feel awful if I eat because then I’m not anorexic enough. Sick, right? I know that is why I have an eating disorder.
On the topic of let’s feed them bran muffins. To recover you need to get over food fears and for most patients the only place they are willing (or forced) to eat “junk” food is in treatment. Avoiding fear foods is staying in the eating disorder, so it is important to learn everything in moderation for both anorexics and bulimics (and compulsive overeaters to)

I am a male with an eating disorder. I find it amazing that this illness is strictly portrayed as a female disorder. In addition, I have contacted Renfrew in the past about my problem and I really got the feeling that males were really not welcome at their facility.
Comments?

I have to admit that when I watched this documentary, I thought of the women portrayed as being whiny, privelaged brats who just didn’t have a real enough notion of the world to appreciate the life they did have. It was really hard to watch them live in a nice facility, paid for by their health insurance in most cases, so that they could whine about their obsessions over being thin. I mean, there are millions of people in this country who don’t even have the health insurance to cover a simple visit to the doctor, let alone weeks on end in a treatment facility like this. Quite frankly, a lot of what the “girls” put themselves through seemed to totally be a battle of wills with the staff. I wonder what would happen if these young women were just left to their own devices with no treatment? Maybe the best treatment for some of these young women would be to send them to a place like Sudan or India, where millions of people struggle each day to just find a simple meal. Or to some of the destitute places in this very country where people don’t have enough to eat, health insurance, or a decent roof over their heads. I realize that EDs are largely the result of our body-concious society, but I feel that people who buy into all that body-image BS are just weak and sort of stupid.

Eating disorders are not “largely the result of a body-conscious society”. Simple research on the history of anorexia will serve as proof of this, as most eating disorders existed WELL before LA started flashing double-zeros around. Ignorance about eating disorders is part of what propagates their existence as epidemics. As someone who has struggled with anorexia in the past (and who isn’t a whiny priviledged brat), I am disappointed in some of the comments I have read here. Especially the one posted above, which reeks of the ignorance, stupidity, and intelectual weakness to which the sufferers of eating disorders are being falsly attributed.
It’s not about bran muffins or cupcakes, it’s not about food. The fact that people still behave as if eating disorders are about food is, to be, absolutely mind-boggling. I don’t think it’s fair to say that the staff are unpleasant or mean.

i agree with heather. At 17years old, i have been in and out of treament centers for the last few years. And eating disorders arent really about the food. Its about emotions that we express through food or emotions that are taken out through eating habits. Or like me, its from post traumatic stress. Many ED patients, myself included, were victims of physical and/or sexual abuse that led to the ED.
And about the bran muffin, we had those at my treatment centers. Everyone wanted Bran muffins for breakfast because they were a starch AND a fat exchange. Usually cupcakes were the same, so the bran muffins was a good deal.

Anyways, anorexics and bulimics are usually middle class, not upper class. And although i am american, i have lived in 16 other countries (for my dads job) and i have seen how the people in other countries live. It makes me feel bad because im wasting food by throwing it up or throwing it away, but it dosent make me stop.

Eric, I spent three months in IP earlier during the winter, and I have to say that Rosewood Ranch in Wickenburg, Arizona is an absolute recommendation for anyone. amazing staff, beautiful setting, great docs that all specialize IN eating disorders, and they take men and treat them well, too. In fact two of my best friends are guys I met there!

I had anorexia and bulimic tendencies and for the calorie counters would it be possible to “wein” the girls away from like forstarters I took in exactly 1150.3 calories to like i tookn in roughly 1100 somthing today so far so maby an applo later..somthing like that??

I cannot believe someone would ever say that the staff at Renfrew Florida was anything shy of supportive. As a former rebelling resident that had my fair share of run-ins with one or two staff members, when all was said and done I was the person in the wrong. I just didn’t want the support they were trying to give me. I wanted to stay sick and their job was to drag me out of it. If they would have fallen over and played along with my little games, I would at best still be extremely sick or dead. I had therapists there wait and talk with me for 30 minutes until my therapist was available. I at the time did not like the structure, but guess what- it works. I am now healthy and living a new life and have new dreams. They do an excellent job with trying to handle patients that are in a very lost state and will say hateful things to the very people that are trying to save them. I did not have an easy road through the level systems there, so it’s not like I got my way and can now give an inaccurate view of what it’s like at Renfrew. I’ve never cried more in my life, never felt more alone, and never wanted to quit more than I did while I was inpatient in Florida. What you put in is what you get out of that place. I made a decision while I was there to do what my treatment team suggested I do. The coping tools I learned there has saved my recovery out of the “Renfrew Bubble”. Oh, and that nurse who is mentioned in such a negative manner- I was so rude to her at first. For some odd reason I had to go to the hospital for stomach problems (not ED related) and she was the one who talked to me over the phone in the middle of the night when I was alone and scared in the hospital. Renfrew saved my life and I hate that someone would try and say they aren’t capable of doing the same for others.

Yo, I agree with your review, the workers at renfrew are a bunch of fat fucking pig fuckers. Not only that but them skinny whiny bitches are so stupid and they need to learn how to properly commit suicide(up and down not side to side cutting of the wrists)

I am someone with anorexia that I’m struggling with right now. As someone suffering from the disorder, but not having been in treatment (and I don’t want it, but it’s interesting to watch) as well as a degree in psychology, I can see both sides. The Renfrew staff aren’t mean or out of line when they do the things they do, nor do they treat the patients like inmates. They HAVE to be harsh if the patients are going to get over their disease.
They can’t be all hugs and kisses all the time.
Anorexia is all about lies and deciet, therefore the staff cannot and should not be too kind to the patients. Nor should they be too harsh. The gardenburger thing was a perfect example – the nutritionist made the right call, in my opinion. If she thought Shelly was being deceitful, she should have told her. She later apologized for the wrongful conviction as well.

This was a fabulous documentary and I thoroughly enjoyed it. I watch it at least once a week.

Okay, first: I have an eating disorder. I still struggle with it. There were times when I tried so f’ing hard to get admitted to a good clinic and it wasn’t possible because they are too damn expensive. It is something you suffer with everyday, a voice in your head that you wish would get the f*** out of there, and it runs your entire life. I hate it with a passion…And I initially I envied the girls in the film for being able to have the ability to get admitted somewhere nice like that….
I watched the film 3 times. I was amazed at how the place worked…And not in a good way. I was stunned. Especially at Jodi Krumholtz, the nutritionist. What a rude, horrible person. When Brittany is opening up to her, she throws the admission to purging back in her face so that the girl feels compelled to keep things to herself even MORE. Before that Brittany asks her “I’ve heard some things about how water can put more weight on you than food does” and the nutritionist asks where she heard that, and Brittany says it’s just been “flying around” and the nutritionist, in her condescending bitch manner says “Well should you listen to the other ED patients or should you listen to your nutritionist”. Everytime I watched that part I wanted to scream, THAT IS WHY BRITTANY IS ASKING YOU, YOU DUMB BITCH. GIVE HER ADVICE, GIVE HER FACTS, GIVE HER INFORMATION, DON’T BE A RUDE BITCH. The girl is obviously sensitive and constantly trembling and the nutritionist can’t pull her head out of her own ass to realize that she can be warm and supportive and kind and just give her the right information…She’s FIFTEEN YEARS OLD, you fool. I’m not even gonna begin talking about the horrible manner in which she treated Polly….
Anyways….If Jodi Krumholtz ever happens to read this, I think she should be ashamed of herself for being such a cruel, coldhearted bitch.
I think that in order to successfully help people get over EDs, there needs to be some involvement of people who have successfully gotten over EDs as an example and as somebody that can show some empathy and compassion – And also show them how they found their way out. None of the therapists in the film has had an ED and I know this, so how do they expect to help girls with EDs???!?!?!

Also, I looked up Jodi Krumholtz on facebook and her picture looks like she’s posing with Polly’s male therapist…If he’s banging her…Ewww….Not cool.

oh and when i mentioned Polly earlier, I meant to say Shelly. Pollack “Polly” Ann Williams has passed away, may she rest in peace.

I have the DVD. It only works a lttle bit because it Has scratches on it but I watch it over an over anyways. I`m obsesed with it. I just love polly. She`s the only one with spunk. It`s sad that her friends turned against her and that she was kicked for prescirption drugs and a tat. It really bites that she passed away with her feb 8 thingy. Rest in peace!.